Naming Names

Last night I decided to go out and meet up with my NYCer friends. I was glad I went.
I had a good chat with Kate Breen before the others showed up. Later, in the bar area, I sat near the fireplace and as I chatted with new faces- Damone and Allison from NJ, a drunken hearing fool came over to tell me he didnt know sign language and that it wasnt fair that he couldnt understand anything. BLAH BLAH BLAH. He left only to return 10 minutes later sitting in a chair next to mine.

Before I could reply he asked if I thought Ben Stiller was attractive. I said, *he didnt know what was coming* “Well, sorta, but I like guys like Antonio Bandaras- you know, spanish guys because I find white men boring and unattractive, so…” Mr. Stiller took the hint and moved onto his next target or should I say targetS for many of the women turned him away. If you ask me, I think that one-night-stand woman he referred to must have had enough beers to go past the point of seeing loosers as they are, slimeballs with octopus tenacles, ewww. The beer jokes dont just apply to the men’s judgement of women.
I got to see other city gals before I took off. I felt bad that I didnt get the chance to chat with the late-comers but it was time for me to go to bed! You would be amazed at what the lack of alcohol can do for your energy level

Ive recieved some comments and became amazed at the circulation of this blog. I did not realize that there were friends of friends of friends visiting it. Thats a nice feeling- to know that the word can get around. Perhaps save some other women (and MEN) from further victimization. I appreciate the support of my readers!

From: Arthur Luhn
To: eitar@tmail.com
Subject: Nieva
Date: Wed, 14 Dec 2005 11:04:55 -0500
I asked you to remove any mention of nieva from your blog site. It is unfair of you to drag that organization into your ranting! Noah founded that organization, not me. Please remove all words. Arthur
~Regan

Apparently while its obvious that Arthur keeps inviting himself to reading my blog, he has not taken notice that I DID remove the NIEVA link from the blogroll. It is no longer there. But to tell me what I can say or not say on my blog is pure idiocity. I know that his cousin, Noah, ~helped~ Arthur found the organization and while I adore Noah and cannot fathom how those two can be related I would rather hear the request from Noah but from what I understand, Noah only founded it but do not run it. I have no issues about Noah running NIEVA, I would much rather that he did because I think hes a man to be trusted. None of my rantings implicate Noah in any way whatsoever. It is just a lame excuse to keep harrassing me.

Then tonight Arthur immed me from a screename that I forgot he had, industralight, to further his point that he already stated in his email today. Im a full time employee and student, do I HAVE the time to respond to his demands riight away? DUH NO! However, his demands are becoming a form of harrassment. It would be in his best interest to leave me alone because I will continue to share whatever he says to me. I dont deserve his manipulative abuse.

Again, Arthur has struck, but on a different note. He informed me that my Bio was FINALLY removed from his website and asked me to remove the link. Which was not a problem. The problem was him asking me to stop talking about him. He used the word “slander” and I have a definition posted here- slander words falsely spoken that damage the reputation of another (www.wordreference.com/definition/slander)

I did not speak of anything that was not the truth when talking about Arthur. I swear on my grandmothers grave that two girls told me at different times in different states that he pursuaded them to change their “Nos” to a relucant *okay*. THAT IS RAPE. Period.

This is my blog and I have every right to express my fears, hopes, thoughts, and love here because it AFFECTS ME! Im deeply concerned that it keeps happening. Besides HOW THE HELL did Arthur get into my blog? Its for myself and my friends not HIM! It disgusts me that he would even come here to read my blog after I told him to stay away from me. Ive had enough of him- HEs the one that keeps harrassing me with threats and verbal abuse. I really wish I never met him! My experience with working with him on the movie Breaking the Circle was the worse ever and I told people about that because its TRUE. Its my experience and others witnessed his abusive manipulative treatment towards me.

Here is a copy of the email where he threatned to take me to court:

Magiconreel: do you have a few minutes to talk?

Magiconreel: you need to remove all mention of NIEVA from your blog site

Magiconreel: we have just updated our website

Magiconreel: and you are no longer on there

Magiconreel: and we request that you do likewise

eitar: Finally, thank god! And don’t ever visit my blog please. Its for friends only and not rapists like you. I was upset to hear u raped another girl this year. U are one sick bastard. Don’t ever talk to me again. Your presence sickens me. You need intensive therapy. No wonder why sue left you. She was a smart girl and predicted ur outcomes.

Magiconreel: you also need to find a lawyer

Magiconreel: because we are prepared to file charges against you

Magiconreel: I have been collecting evidence that you have been engaged in libel and slander Magiconreel: not just on your blog site

Magiconreel: but also in a few emails that have been forwarded to us

Magiconreel: that were written by you Magiconreel: so if you persist

Magiconreel: that will only make it easier for us

Magiconreel: because we’re just taking our time collecting all the evidence we need

eitar: Good for u, u will not win

eitar: I have girls that will say that they told me what rhey did

Magiconreel: you’re going to have a child soon, and you’re applying for a teacher certificate, so why would you want to be in court?

eitar: I doubt u will have anything against me bec I was protecting girls from u

Magiconreel: it doesn’t matter

eitar: Why the hell do u rape girls

eitar: Why can’t u ask nicely?

Magiconreel: because you will still lose money for paying lawyer

Magiconreel: etc

Magiconreel: and so on

eitar: U can’t force me

Magiconreel: and I know you can’t afford that

eitar: Neither can u

eitar: I’m not afraid of u

Magiconreel: I’m just giving you a chance

eitar: U need to leave me alone

Magiconreel: if you stop now

Magiconreel: we won’t file anything

eitar: Leave me alone

eitar: I will contine to warn girls abt u

eitar: As long u stop victimizing girls

Magiconreel: if you continue to persist

eitar: Then it will stop

eitar: I’m not persisting arthor

eitar: I have a right to blog abt my experience on my blog

eitar: Duh its my blog

eitar: Fredom of speech duh

Magiconreel: for your information, I have had a girlfriend for almost half a year

eitar: My friends are welcome to it

Magiconreel: and that will be brought up in court

eitar: Oooh 6 months

eitar: What abt the spring

eitar: the other 6 months?

Magiconreel: I’m just giving you a chance

eitar: Girls tell me things

eitar: Don’t give them a reason to tell me things

Magiconreel: if you cease now

Magiconreel: I will not proceed with filing charges against you

Magiconreel: however if you keep on slandering me

eitar: I’m not slandering u

Magiconreel: I will have no choice

eitar: I’m bloging what goes on in my life

eitar: Stop visiting my blog

eitar: I have a right to say what I want on my blog

Magiconreel: that’s the choice I’m giving you

eitar: Tim asked me to protect for girls

eitar: So I did

Magiconreel: I’m just letting you know

Magiconreel: that if you persist

eitar: Its a choice u have no power over

eitar: I have a blog

eitar: Its mine!

Magiconreel: charges will be brought against you

Magiconreel: please do not call my bluff

eitar: U can’t chanrge me for my blog

eitar: Arthor how stupid are u

Magiconreel: yes I can

eitar: U ever heard of the 5th@,

eitar: No u cant

eitar: I have a right to explain my life experience

Magiconreel: freedom of speech does not include slander and libel

Magiconreel: look it up

eitar: Its not slander idiot

Magiconreel: anyway I’ve said what I want to say

eitar: Its expressing my horrors of hearing that u victimized another girl

Magiconreel: you know my position

eitar: I’m ashamed of u

Magiconreel: that’s all I have to say

eitar: I’m ashamed I ever workd with u

eitar: Good for u

eitar: U know mine

eitar: I have a right to my blog

eitar: Stop reading it

Magiconreel: this conversation is being saved and may be used in court

eitar: Yeha sure

eitar: Save it

Magiconreel: thank you

eitar: I don’t care

Magiconreel: goodbye

eitar: Bye

Magiconreel: Magiconreel signed off at 4:12 pm.

I now have joined the VeePee club with a newly installed Sorenson! Whee, contact me for my number if you wanna chat.

Finals has started at TC, I have a big presentation due on Wed and Im no where beyond halfway finished! Ick!

Tonight I will be interpreting for a Deaf-Blind presenter along with Jenny. This should be fun! I also have some interpreting jobs lined up for Christmas break for extra moola. Im looking forward to it seeing that I enjoy interpreting more than my current job from H#LL. I now teach 7th grade on top of 6th, 8th, and 9th. I really suck as a middle school teacher. I really just dont know how to handle those kids. Again, I emphatize that when I was hired- the verbal agreement was that I would teach High School only but since that was verbal (*^%^$%$#@ me!), Im stuck with what I got handed, along with the hand-me-down 7th grade that I just began teaching last week due to the former teacher quitting that class. SIGH.

Mom is not doing well in terms of health. She has been really sick. Hopefully she will get better in the best form as possible, but we all know she drinks and its hard to stop. EVEN when you are sicker than a wet dog, incapable of keeping food in the body. Enough on that.

Hope everyone has a great week! Be in good health and drive safe. Snow does not mean GO! as in go faster. Heh.

On Monday night I recieved my unofficial scores for the final test towards the NY state ASL teacher certification (a day early) and found that I had passed! Wheee!

 

Not only do I turn 27 tomorrow, I also show my first signs of mommy-hood. My belly is showing some growth. For those of you who do not know, I am expecting a child to be born on May 21st. My fathers birthday Heh. In the blogging friends section is a link to baby Peanut’s website. Welcome

i forgot to write about how Arthur Luhn strikes again upon another unknowing female. I was at the Metropolitan Musuem (MET) about three weeks ago to join an ASL tour by Guthrie, who I must add- is a FABULOUS presenter! Afterwards there was a reception and I talked to several people then one girl told me she almost moved to Boston. Somehow I had a funny feeling inside, nagging at me- so I said, oh if you ever run into Arthur stay away from him. She blushed and gave me a nervous smile. I said, oh, too late you already know huh? How did you know him? She said they had dated for a while and I was like, ooooh. Im sorry. Then she got around to revealing that he sort of forced her into agreeing to have sex and I was like thats rape. She was like no its not. I said it is if he refused to take no for an answer and ketp pushing until you gave in. She wont report on him, but she does try to inform others to be wary of him without explaining why. Of course those other girls want to know why, afterall females are naturally suspicious of everything, and want to investigage motives. Heh. Im frustrated with how much Damage Arthur inflicts upon signing members of the community! A friend of mine and I were asked to share our story to four other girls who are going into a project with Arthur, we managed to encourage two girls to drop the project while the other two remain confident that nothing will happen to them. Who can blame them, they want to be on the “big screen.” Today I took my final NY state exam. If I passed it- ill be a NY state certified teacher. The test was long and windy- My eyes glazed over all the questions. The flourescent industrial lights were really bad. The test was done in a huge convention center that looked like a warehouse. Guess its a good scheme of making more students fail to reap in more profits on their retakes? Bah!

http://www.deaflawblog.com/ A lot of political rantings where Deaf people are directly or indirectly involved. http://www.ad-awards.com/inc/video.swf?id=104 This is a link to a French Advertisement for a French Electric Company (EDC) There is a saying in French at the end and my interpreter coordinator for Teacher’s College got the English translation from his french fluent speaking Ex. Le monde est plus dur quand il n’est pas concu pour vous. Desormais, les espaces EDF sont accessibles a tous. The world is harder when it’s not made with you in mind. From now on, EDF is accessible for everyone. (EDF is a French electricity company)

The gang arrived late Friday night, but not late enough to skip out on meeting the NYCers at Ryans Bar for DPHH! We hurried through the unloading and subway hopping to arrive at 12:30am and we stayed until 2:30. I got to meet up with Tyrone from “All About Love” and agreed that we had met before but just couldnt put a finger on where when and how. Hes a pleasant fella

I also saw Elise, a former counselor of mine from CCC in Maine, for the first time since BEFORE I broke up with Mario. She tried to help my through the situation then but was not making any progress. Of course I had a lot to catch her up on regarding that…and introduced her to my non-abusive love, Jami Its a small world because she actually works in the elementary dept. at the same school that I work at now.

Saturday we all went to eat brunch and went back to the apt to veg out until it was time to go paint the town red. the only thing that went wrong that night was poor Con-man got really sick and had to skip the nightclub grove with us. The nightclub, Temple, was really nice- very WHITE dominant on the main floor. Perhaps on the Reggaton floor were more ethic dancers, who knows, I never went up to see the third floor. Smile.

Sunday we headed out to the MET to see the Photography of the panoramic exhibit. It was so FAKE! I couldnt enjoy it. Especially the excoplasma part- it was just too gross to see people stuffing their noses with lamb intestines or putting raw meat on a mans gentials to look like it was a monsterous hand fondling him! ICK! But we got to split up and enjoy other parts of the musuem’s exhibits. I really enjoyed this part with Jami, it was very relaxing- could put me to sleep if it werent for the occasional delights catching my eye (Which was usually something of a dirty nature JK.

Monday, the gang left around 330 (three and half hours later than planned due to Conman and Katlicious desire to journey to the “end of the world-manhattan” prior to depature and not to mention kate getting lost on the way back to my apt, heehee. I didnt finish my homework for Monday night’s class so instead of taking a nap to catch up I had to quickly read through 3 articles and write a reflective journal within an hour’s time. I was only 12 minutes late to class! In my opinion I wasnt late enough- I barely could keep a focus on the lecture.

Right now, I dont have any pictures from the weekend to show. If I get any from the gang, Ill be sure to post them. I dont want to be at work at all today. My bed beckons me, a mantra I cannot rid myself of.